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‘Died’ or ‘passed away’? Why language matters in hospice care

How we talk about death and dying is key to promoting understanding and helping people feel more comfortable with the topic. Medical Director Jane Whitehurst explains why clarity and consistency are important around this sensitive subject.

Joe’s story

Joe, a primary school teacher from Shoreham, was only 34 when he died in 2021, leaving behind wife Tania and their two young daughters. In this blog, Tania pays tribute to her “funny, loving” husband and describes how St Barnabas House helped them navigate such devastating loss.

Remembering mums on Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day can be an emotional day in the calendar if you’re bereaved and feeling the loss of your mum. Here are ten meaningful ways to remember your mum at this time.

10 ways to create special memories with a loved one who is approaching the end of their life

Making special memories with a loved one isn’t about doing everything perfectly. It’s about showing up with love, compassion and positive intentions. Here, we share some tips and ideas for making precious memories with your loved one.

Helping you talk to children about death

Talking to children about death is difficult. Where do you start? Will they understand? How will they react? What questions will they ask?

Coping with bereavement at Christmas

If you're feeling the weight of Christmas grief, you don't have to let the festive season become a painful reminder. Discover practical tips and emotional support to navigate the festive season.

Writing about my grief led me to publish my own book, and it has helped others too

"People have different ways of dealing with grief. None of them are right or wrong, it’s about whatever works for you, but there’s no reason for people to feel like they’re on their own or struggling — there’s a lot of help out there."

Dying Matters Week – Helping you talk about death

This year’s Dying Matters Week (6-12 May) will explore the way we talk about death and dying. Our presence and words can build bridges of connection and comfort, as chaplain Sarah Bell explains.

No right way to grieve

"Death is the (very large) elephant in the room that we often feel uncomfortable talking about despite the fact it affects all of us, and everyone around us."

It’s your time to be selfish

"When my Dad received his terminal prognosis in March 2020, I didn’t want there to be a single word left unsaid to him."